I mean, he has dealt with me through two preganancies...that's a feat in itself.
I was reminded of a very important marriage secret this week and I thought I would share.
Matt and I don't really "hide" stuff from eachother. That would be dishonest and not a great foundation for marriage, so we try and avoid that.
However, every now and again I get this INSANE need for a cheeseburger. Not just ANY cheeseburger, but a Culver's single with cheese, ketchup, mustard and extra pickle:) It's SO good and makes me totally happy. I rarely feel guilty about it 'cause we eat well 96% of the time. Well, I do anyways;)
Matt doesn't really get cravings, but every now and again I will find sprinkles in the car....like multi colored sprinkles from a donut, And I'm like, "where did these come from?" I didn't have a donut, I wish I did though!!! Turns out every now and again Matt stops on his way home from work and treats himself to some donuts, but he just didn't have the heart to tell me. And I'm like WHAT???
So the other night I said to him...."I am just so proud of you for not buying any take and bake pizzas this week!" AND he had this guilty look on his face. He went out to the garage freezer and brought in a mini one. GUILTY! Then he says to me, how was your culver's today? And I'm like, "How did you know?" and he's like, "I saw the bag you hid in the trash outside."
I'm like, "I wasn't HIDING it from you, I just didn't want you to know." hahaha
Moral of the story, sometimes, YOU DON'T NEED TO SAY A WORD. You know. They know. And it just doesn't matter. Let your spouse have their "secrets." It's best for everyone involved:)